Sunday, January 31, 2010

A 3:40 am Blog Post

Silly Mia, cam is for grown-ups! Then how come some many of you "men" act like children.
I haven't been camming much in the last few months. Ever since Niteflirt did their "site improvements" I have cut back drastically on camming. There are a few reason for this, mainly because there was that short time a while back when I wasn't getting compensated for calls. It's quite frustrating to find yourself at the end of a call and not get paid, but it's even worse when you find yourself at the end of a 30 minute cam session with your knickers around your ankles and then you find out you aren't getting paid. See, i enjoy camming, i am an exhibitionist, so you can see way i would enjoy it. But I never know who will call. It can quite a mind-fuck camming. There you are all nice and juicy from your last two callers then suddenly you get the asshole caller. I usually can make it through these calls, luckily asshole usually equals idiot which usually equals lesser intelligence. Less intelligences automatically gives me the upper hand and therefore i can usually get out of the cam call with few causalities. I pride myself on having almost perfect feedback... (more on this in a second) and I respect my callers, I respect them as customers, individuals and as sexual beings. Sadly that respect isn't always returned. So here I am on a Saturday night ready to give camming another chance and I get the two big asshole callers back to back. These douche bags are ruining it for you. So here is a review on manners when calling Mia.
I reply to your messages, I chat with you, find out a little about you before you call. But I will not hang in IM with you and give you free masturbation material. Sorry, call if you want to jerk off. And while we are at it, why not use complete sentences?
I enjoy a nice seductive call, i like showing off, teasing and drawing my callers into the scene. I want to get into their heads, hear their kinks, listen to their words but if you call me, don't demand immediate nakedness. If you want to look at a random pussy, go to xnxx or someother free porn site. I am a real life person and if it's not hot for me how can it possibly be hot for you? In other words I need a little foreplay. And while we are at it, you might need to know I do not have a high def camera, or a zoom. Is a close up, two inches from a pussy really sexy? I am a whole person, if it's not me and just pussy that gets you off, please move on.
Ok, I really don't know how to say this any way other than, assholes, cheats, scammers... please don't bother. I am not stupid. Plus you will ruin it for everyone else.
So, as it stands now i am returning to phone only and cam only by special request. If you have called me before, don't be shy, I would love to play with you, just say hi.

About Feedback, what has happened? I rarely get feedback anymore. Is it because the "new Niteflirt" makes it harder or something? Feedback is helpful to me, it attracts new callers and raises my ranking, so why not take a minute or two and show me you appreciate me with a little feedback.
Meanwhile I did get some awesome feedback on a cam call from the night before last. I really appreciated it, and wanted to share it. Sorry the caller did do some flirt bashing in it, but he may have really touched on something .... here it is. Thank you you know who.

"WHAT A GREAT PROVIDER!! This service is starting to go to hell in a hand
basket!!! Too many ugly chic's, and fat girls that think they are princess
material." I DONT THINK SO". And too many chics trying to rip you off all the
time..not to mention these 6.99 a minute fakes ( money wh_r_s!! Oh ya.. and the
20 year olds that has experience cuckolding?? What.. she hasn't even been
But MIA.. is a true sexual goddess with lots of great experience!! Thanks babe
for the role play and the listening!!! I love your sexy attitude and input!! A true
sexual goddess!!"

OK, Tom's waiting on me, and he is one of the many callers who I really enjoy spending time with.... Thank you to all you nice guys!

xxoo mia

Saturday, January 16, 2010

A Return

I sometimes crave to be pushed hard against the wall, pressed into, felt roughly and entered with force. If the lover is skillful I will experience a change of consciousness. This shift is difficult for me to describe. Even those who have shared this with me don’t always realize what has occurred. When asked to describe it most words are lacking; possessed sounds too negative but is almost accurate. I used to hid my “transformation” or at least gloss over it. But I had this lover who liked to re-count. The passionate act was one thing, but for him, hearing me retell it was another huge turn on. I found myself thinking through our fucking, trying to place it in my memory as it happened. The unfortunate side effect was of course, that I would be unable to let go enough to slip into that other world. I wanted to please this man, but also, when I was revisiting the event for him, if I got fuzzy over details or the order of things he took it personally. He thought that our lust was common or forgettable for me. This was far from the case but he still looked doubtfully at me when I tried to explain my possession.

I crave the events leading up to the shift because I actually need the shift. Rarely is there a time in my life when I shut down. It can be quite aggravating to be around me because I think constantly. I analyze and question constantly. My brain is churning at every moment. And as you may be able to imagine, even sleep is often elusive. Why am I telling you this? I want you to understand my sexual motivation; this is why I am a sexual adventurer, as I so blatantly claim. I need the shift. It’s not a want, this is therapy for me. Sex is healing, relaxing, cathartic, oh wait, no, let me revise. Sex can be healing, relaxing and cathartic.

But what about all the other sexual experiences, you know, the non-forceful, non-rough fucking penetrative sex? What about the seductive Mia, what about all those sexual experiences that involve Mia in something tight and revealing with her mind in high gear and her taking her lover into a realm of exploitation or manipulation or calculated seduction and teasing? These sexual experiences fulfill another side of me. It’s not the same as the animalistic penetrative sex that takes me into lala-land it’s more … hmm, this is also difficult to define. The first word that comes to mind is amusing and sorry if that seems harsh, but it’s like a challenge, a game, a hobby, a talent. I get a rush, a tingle, it’s, quite honestly, egotistically pleasing. I can’t think of a time when I feel lovelier then when I see a man groveling or falling over himself to please me. It turns me on to be desired by certain men, not just any man, but men who have power in the world and find themselves offering it all to me. These aren’t the same kind of lovers whom I share the animalistic fucking with usually.

I guess it all goes back once again to balance. Doesn’t everything? I walk between many worlds in my life and that is how I like it. I easily flow between the submissive and dominant, the traditional and the non-conformist, the working class and the educated. I am open to many experiences. I am trying to take advantage of everything life has to offer.

xxoo mia